With Thanksgiving Day approaching at the end of an up and down year, I'm thinking of what I have to be thankful for. Sometimes I complain about the stress of writing two books a year and all the promotion that goes with it. But today I am really thankful that I've had a chance to see my work published, that I get letters from fans and what I have created is appreciated by other people. I do realize that it is not always the best that succeed, that there is always an element of luck involved. I'm sure that there are brilliant actors working in regional theater who would outshine any movie star, but they never got that lucky break.
So I'm saying thank you for the chance to pursue what I love to do all my life. I am also thankful that I have a chance to live in the perfect place for me. I love the hills and coast of Northern California, I love being outdoors, I love the sunshine. I also love the closeness to San Francisco and all the culture and restaurants and ethnic celebrations. And I look forward to the winter months in my condo in Arizona and the desert and wonderful sunsets.
But none of this would mean a thing without friends and family. Most of all I am thankful that I am surrounded by people I love and who love me. When a grandchild climbs onto my knee and says, "Nana, I do love you," that is the most wonderful feeling in the world. When I sit with the family at a holiday table and the room resounds to laughter and banter, I feel competely content. And when I'm sitting with my friends, sharing laughing--well there's nothing better than that either.
And having lost a dear friend to cancer this year, I am thankful for my health. I'm thankful that we live near good hospitals, that my husband's recurrance of cancer was caught quickly and is being treated agressively. Having had a patch of bad health at the beginning of the year I realize more than ever that if you don't feel well,then nothing else matters.
Lastly I am thankful that I live in a country where women don't have to cover themselves head to toe before they can leave the house, and are at the mercy of their menfolk. I'm thankful that we can choose our own leaders fairly, that there is no secret police watching or soldiers standing with AK 47s at the end of my street.
So I wish all of you a blessed, happy thanksgiving. Be grateful for what you have. Hug those you love. Oh--and keep on reading good books!