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January 25, 2012

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Lisa Garrett

I would love to read this. Thank you for the opportunity.

lag110 at mchsi dot com

Lois Winston

Thanks, Lisa! I hope you enjoy the book.

Patti Brooks

Sure can relate to knowing the right person. I accidently met someone who, in 1945, escaped by horse and wagon from Germany just as the Russians were coming to govern it after WWII. As a writer of mysteries set in the horse world, and, wearing a different hat, a writer of historical novels, what a find! Needless to say this will figure strongly in an upcoming book. Perhaps even take on a life of its own and become the book.

Sandy Tilley

I grew up in a small town in Alabama where everybody knew everybody else--too well. So who you knew often backfired. But as you show so successfully, it makes great fodder for fiction!

Lois Winston

Patti, what great serendipity! Good luck with the book.

Sandy, not sure I'd like the lack of privacy that would go along with living somewhere where everyone knew everyone else!

Jane Robinson

I'm sure there have been times that I've benefited from knowing the right person. But, mostly, I've just been in the right place at the right time. My best example was when I applied for a scholarship that required a personal interview. I didn't receive the scholarship, but the person interviewing me later offered me an assistantship, which was much more valuable and beneficial. He said he liked my interview and thought of me when the position became available. It was just a matter of being in the right place at the right time.

Jeff Salter

My first reaction to your question was: no, I've never 'known' anybody. But after I got to thinking, my answer is diff.
A school buddy's father owned a feed & seed store in town. That buddy had a major role in selecting who would be the Saturday guy (to candle eggs, haul feed/seed/fertilizer, and make deliveries). I knew his dad, but I know it was my buddy who 'hired' me. That Sat. job became a full time job for the summer before I went to college.

Camille Minichino

My first jobs behind a counter on Revere Beach came to me through Uncle Guido, and who knows who HIS bosses were!

Margaret Lucke

I've often benefited from knowing the right person. Friends and acquaintances have led me to jobs, agents, publishing opportunities, teaching gigs, and so much more. And I try to return those favors or pay them forward.

I'm sure that most of us, once we think about it, can say the same. It's not the kindness of strangers we rely on, but the kindness of friends.

Camille Minichino

A good point, Peggy, remembering to pay it forward.

Liz

I came across this Mark Twain quote, "Adam was the luckiest man; he had no mother-in-law", and immediately thought of poor Anastasia. Compounded by her own mother's good intentions!

Anonymous

In a town where "who you know" helps all others & they usually get the best jobs, it definitely backfired on me. The top boss in my dept. at the time was definitely NOT happy that the guy who had donated the most to the organization (and to his dept. as well) was my grandmother's first cousin's husband & that I had the temerity to actually want off to go to his funeral. I guess he could not understand doing something for someone who had not helped you jobwise & couldn't now? (I had gotten the job on my own with that name never mentioned.) I always joked that only I could have technical connections backfire.

Camille Minichino

It's been great to have you here today, Lois. Thanks for including LadyKillers on your tour!

Lois Winston

I posted a comment earlier in response to some of the above comments, but it looks like it's lost in some black hole of cyberspace. So I'll have to try to remember what i wrote.

Jane, being in the right place at the right time is often what publishing is all about, too. It's having the right ms. land on the right editor's desk on the right day.

Jeff, from what I remember of high school, most of the kids who had after-school and summer jobs got them through connections.

Camille, exactly what sort of work were you doing for Uncle Guido???

Margaret, paying it forward is so important. Good for you for doing so.

Liz, great quote! And so appropriate for Anastasia!

Anonymous, sounds like your boss was a real jerk!

Thanks for inviting me, Camille. It's been a lively discussion.

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